Daily grind – sharing

It goes without saying – toddlers find it difficult to share. Have you ever tried to convince a 2 or 3 year old that they need to share something? Sometimes they are willing – very often they are not.

Just this past week, Becky had two of our kids with her picking up vegetables just down here on Grand boulevard. And one of the things she picked up was a small pumpkin. She had her hands full with the other vegetables, and so she asked Reuben if he would carry the pumpkin. Well someone, who happens to be named Esther, decided that she really should be the one carrying the pumpkin. “But Esther, it’s Reuben’s turn – I asked him to help me. You can carry something next time.” Well, as you probably suspect, that wasn’t going to do it for Esther. It was now or never – and the tears flowed and the little screams came. But I want to carry the pumpkin.

The whole logic of sharing is something that toddler’s are on their way to learning. It’s true that toddler’s can be taught to share, but it is only as they develop and mature that the logic of sharing becomes more deeply engrained in them. Even as they grow, of course, the various influences in a child’s environment (the example set by adults, for example) will influence whether they share with others. Continue reading

the daily grind – waking

Our life is ordinary,

I read in a crumpled paper

abandoned on a bench.

Our life is ordinary,

the philosophers told me.


Ordinary life, ordinary days and cares,

a concert, a conversation,

strolls on the town’s outskirts,

good news, bad – 

The opening stanzas of this poem say something pretty obvious, really. The poet might make the point with particular creativity, but he’s not really saying something that’s new to us. Life is ordinary. From day to day we go through experiences and relationships that aren’t exceptional or astonishing. Indeed, we could easily add to the little catalogue of ordinary events that the poet offers:

            Eating breakfast in the morning.

            Skimming through friends’ Facebook pages.

            Sitting through a class.

            Going shopping.

Day in, day out – our life is ordinary.

This morning we’re beginning a series of sermons that will take us through the Fall, with a few interruptions along the way. And the title of the series is The Daily Grind. It’s a series of sermons on the ordinary things of life. Continue reading